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13 ways an escort can leave almost any customer pleased
September 3, 2016 |
It’s your job as an adult entertainment provider to please your customers. But making them happy is sometimes a challenge. While there is no specific formula you can use with every client or customer to ensure his satisfaction, there are some things you can do that will help create an overall level of pleasure:

1. Provide a good booking experience: Starting off on the right foot is the best way to ensure not only a good relationship with a customer, but also a happy meeting. When he schedules time with you, whether for a party, an encounter or a personal webcam event, you have the opportunity to create an excited anticipation on his part. When you call or write back when you say you will, outline your available schedule clearly and coordinate the details in a friendly, flirty fashion, your customer will feel positively about how the beginning phase of the whole experience is going. On the other hand, though, if he has to chase you down to find out about scheduling or has difficulties figuring out how to spend time with you, he may feel like he’s already exerted a lot of effort for no pleasure, yet. He may go into the gig feeling like you have a lot of making up to do to compensate for the rough start. If you begin on a good note, it’s a whole lot easier to please your customer.

2. Communicate clearly about the gig: The best way to ensure that you give your client what he wants is to ask about his expectations. Some customers are hesitant to share details about what they want during the scheduling process. And that’s OK — to an extent. These clients are the ones you have to be patient with and cautiously draw out what they want to say. Find a way to address his desires so that you know whether they fit within your service offerings. Ask a lot of questions and truly listen to his responses. Ask more questions, if you have to, so that you have a clear understanding of what he wants from you. Of course, some details are best reserved for when you meet up (especially for escorts), but even then, it’s imperative that you talk to your customer to get on the same page. Verify that you understand. Repeat what you think he’s telling you back to him. If you fail to communicate, you will never know what your client wanted. It will be impossible to make him happy.

3. Observe your customer’s body language: Being responsive to what they say and how they act is necessary when you are an adult services provider. Their body language can tell you a lot about their level of pleasure and satisfaction. Additionally, it can guide you on how you approach your client for the first time. A client who seems open to physical contact and is flirty is ready for any advance you are prepared to make. But a customer who positions himself away from you or crosses his arms may not be quite ready for any level of intimacy, requiring you to extend the “warm up” period of your visit. A customer who looks you right in the eye may be ready for you to approach him when you dance at a club. However, one who looks away and prefers to glance at you when you’re not looking might be disturbed if you came up to him too early.

4. Follow through on your plans/promises: When you discuss your plans with a customer, it’s important that you carry out what you promised. There isn’t any use in communicating with him about his desires for the encounter or gig if you aren’t going to remember what you talked about. Document it in your phone, write it down on a piece of paper — whatever! But find a way to remind yourself what you’ve promised a client when you work with him prior to meeting up. If you promised to wear a costume, you’d better do it. When you tell him you’ll give him the backrub of his dreams, don’t forget your massage oils. Leave a time slot open when you said you would next week for him. When you don’t follow through with your promises, it’s telling your client two things: 1) your customer service is faulty and 2) your conversation with him didn’t mean much to you. He feels like he’s wasted his time with you. However, when you follow through (especially without reminders), he feels important, listened to and happy. Easy peasy!

5. Lavish him with compliments: While there is no sure-fire way to please EVERY client, one of the best ways to leave him happy is to make him feel good about himself. Some providers are intuitive enough to pick up on any doubts a customer may have about himself. If that’s you, take advantage of this skill to pinpoint areas you can compliment him on. For instance, a customer may be self conscious about his retreating hairline. Tell him how you find bald men attractive and distinguished. If he’s gained a few pounds, stress that you don’t like guys who are too skinny. Some clients are very hard to compliment, but it’s up to you to find something to encourage him about. A great sense of humor, a nice smile or pretty eyes are easy ideas to use. But try to go beyond that. Maybe, he has really nice hands. Or, he’s got an infectious laugh. Or, his voice is enthralling. Some guys are really smart — or know a ton about a certain subject. Complimenting your customer is not only a way to make them happy, but it usually leads to opening them up.

6. Give your customers affection: One of the most common reasons customers seek out attention from adult entertainment providers is that they seek affection they are missing from other outlets in their lives. They want to be loved on, basically. They want to be touched by someone. And, while adult services providers often resort to very sexual contact, other forms of physical affection are what will really set you apart from other providers. Casually, put your hand on a customer’s arm or hand. Touch his leg as you laugh at his joke. Hold his hand. Give your client a hug — not a sexy one with your breasts in his face — But a genuine, warm hug with a pat and rub on his back. This affection will bring your clients back for more and establish a genuine connection. Acting as though you want your customer to be happy is a huge step toward making them happy.

7. Let your customer decide who takes the lead: Even if your client doesn’t step up and say so, he has a preference about who takes the lead during your gig . And, no matter what kind of services you provide, there’s always a way to lead or be led. Some clients are tired of being in charge or are just generally more submissive in nature. When you have this kind of a customer, it’s essential that you notice and take the lead. Without you stepping in, your client will feel like he has to — which makes him uncomfortable and unable to fully enjoy himself. Conversely, some clients WANT to guide the adventure. They may assume that they have to allow you to do it, based on the parameters of your services. But that’s not true. It’s your responsibility to learn to convey that they have a choice. Without being able to discern which way the client wants it, you won’t be able to make him happy.

8. Don’t make it complicated: Clients need simplicity. They want to meet up and enjoy themselves with you. Their lives are dramatic and challenging. One of the easiest ways to make your customers happy is to provide an experience that is easy. From the booking process to them being able to tell you what they want you to do, make it straight-forward, clear and game-free. While some providers make their rules and guidelines very elaborate, make yours simple and transparent. Never make a client jump through hoops to see you. And, don’t beat around the bush about what services you provide and which ones you don’t. He wants to know whether he’s going to get what he wants and what he has to do to get it. Give clear directions to your incall, if you’re an escort. Explain clearly what the customer gets when you come for a private dance, if you’re an exotic dancer. Don’t make him guess and don’t make it hard.

9. Explain the boundaries: Sometimes, a client will ask for something you will not do. That’s ok. He doesn’t know until he asks. But as you explain that you do not perform a certain service, explain why, if it seems necessary. At that point, it’s appropriate to elaborate on your boundaries and guidelines. This may make your client clearly disappointed. And, you may think your chances of pleasing him from this point on are ruined. It could be. But it may be possible to turn them around. Provide alternative options for services you turned down with your client. Giving your customer some other ideas about what the two of you might do, could possibly spark an interest in something else that will make him even happier than the suggested activity. A customer should know that just because his idea got shot down, it doesn’t mean that your boundaries will prohibit everything fun,.

10. Be creative to help meet your client’s wants: Like in the point above, a client may ask for something you aren’t willing to do. When he does, use your creativity and homework to figure out something new for him. There are times, though, when a client requests something that isn’t exactly out of your “approved” list, but isn’t specified as something you’re accustomed to. For instance, if a customer wants you and a colleague to strip and wrestle in a pool of gelatin, you may not know how to answer. It’s a lot of work, but it’s not something you’ve prohibited. And, it’s not something you’re morally opposed to. You might not want to wrestle in the gelatin, but you might have an idea for something less messy and a lot less work. Use your ingenuity to create solutions for clients, instead of just turning them down. When a customer feels like you’ve done your best to accommodate his wishes, he is going to be much happier than just being turned down, flat.

11. If all else fails, resort to oral sex: This tip applies for escorts, only. If you’re with a client and all of your other efforts to sexually satisfy him seem to fail, go for the groin. Most customers will agree that there’s no such thing as bad oral sex. Try out all of your techniques until you find something that seems to be working. Be easy, but use pressure. And, make sure there is plenty of lube going on . Even if he’s not pleased with the rest of the encounter, your efforts should make him happy.

12. Realize that a customer may enjoy it more than you think he does: Some customers are just grumpy or don’t express themselves very well. As long as they are not complaining and telling you that you are not doing a good job, you shouldn’t automatically assume that a client isn’t happy. Many customers are shy and, maybe, even a bit ashamed of themselves for the time they’ve spent with you. Their inhibitions are still going strong. And, they just don’t share their emotions, with anyone. When a customer lacks expression or doesn’t act elated, you shouldn’t take it as criticism or a bad review of your services. Feel free to openly ask a customer if he’s happy with the experience. But don’t be surprised when he fails to gush or shout from the rooftops about the good time he had.

13. Know some customers are just displeased at everything: There are going to be some customers who aren’t happy with anything. You could give them a million dollars and they’d be unhappy that you didn’t give them two. Adult service providers who see these kinds of customers should just accept that they can do their best to please these types, but don’t expect to ever fully succeed. It’s not a result of your efforts. It’s not your fault. You could provide the perfect, most ideal experience and these people would still be dissatisfied.
Usually, when you do your best to be a thoughtful and thorough adult services provider, your customers are going to be pleased with what you give them. When they know you’ve put your heart and soul into it, sane and decent clients can’t help but value the time you’ve spent with them. And you won’t want to deal with any other type.

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The escort’s 13 ways to loosen up before going on
November 29, 2016 |
Whether it’s stage fright or just the fear of the unknown that suddenly hits an escort or any other adult service provider, it can be hard to mentally and physically prepare for performances for clients and customers. Much like any other kind of performer or service provider, there are many relaxation techniques you can use to loosen up prior to the “big event.” Relaxation may not be the only thing you need to consider as you get ready to take the stage or meet up with a client. Review these tips to help you loosen up and build yourself up for a stellar performance:

1. Engage in personal development: Even if you’re really not the sort for “self-help” books, it doesn’t hurt to try it out. Personal development can be incredibly empowering, change your overall outlook on life and build your self-confidence. It can help you focus better so that you can build your career and establish yourself as a professional in your field. Basically, personal development products build you up and help you see positives, when negatives may usually come to mind. You can read books or listen to seminars/presentations. But, all in all, personal development sessions can give you the confidence and calm within yourself that will help you loosen up with clients. It can make you believe in yourself. And, it can help you rid worries from your mind as you focus in on success.

2. Find some alone time: It’s possible that the only thing you need to get going in your direction before a performance is your state of mind. Squeezing in some alone time, where nothing distracts your focus, can really help you mentally (and physically) prepare to entertain your customers. Alone time is a valuable commodity where you can spend it however you want. If you’re forced to spend the last hour or more with others, immediately before you meet up with clients, it can really hinder your ability to psych yourself up and formulate a mental plan. Being able to focus solely on yourself prior to a performance will help you develop a frame of mind dedicated exclusively to your customers. Having to focus on others prior to your encounters or gigs will cause those concerns or issues to carry over into your experience with clients.

3. Take a hot bath or shower: Not only do you need to clean up and dote on your appearance prior to a performance as an adult entertainment provider, but you also need to use that time in the tub or shower to relax. This may be a great opportunity to enjoy some alone time where you can wash away your concerns, focus on the positive and mentally prepare yourself for clients. As you soak or stand in the steam, focus on how the sensation feels on your body. Concentrate on relaxing every body part, from the top of your head to the tips of your toes. Let your worries slide away. And, just enjoy the pure relaxation that the hot bath or shower provides. Consider using some aromatherapy products that will either energize or soothe you. In addition to the relaxation the bath/shower gives you, it may help relieve tired/sore muscles. And, it can help ensure that your skin is moisturized and looking amazing, which is important to your clients.

4. Get your sweat on: A good workout can increase those “feel good” endorphin and help put you in the perfect state for a performance. It helps you shake off any stress or concerns you may have about meeting up with your clients or an upcoming gig. It can lift your mood and build your confidence. AND — in addition to the enhancement to your emotions and self-esteem, it gives you a bangin’ body! Building that muscle tone, increasing your endurance and shedding unwanted fat gives you so much confidence when you’re with customers. It ensures you can fit into those slinky outfits that your customers like so much and provides you with the physical ability to withstand the activities clients request. A good workout prepares you for your time as an adult entertainment services provider in so many ways.

5. Avoid outside stress: Dodge that phone call from your drama mama and ditch the worrywart friends when you’re going to be prepping for a gig. Adding extra stress into your life immediately before your performance will only distract you and cause you to worry about your own issues tenfold. Rid your mind of outside concerns and focus solely on your responsibilities to your client. Think about his requests. Anticipate what you can do for him. Put your other worries to the side until your performance is complete. If you’re focusing on a million different things, it’s going to negatively impact your ability to please your customers. They will notice that you’re thinking about other issues, instead of them. If you have to withdraw from others momentarily to rid your stress levels, do so. But, if you attempt to prepare yourself for customers and allow outside stress factors to impact you, it’s only going to hurt you.

6. Do something you love: Personal enjoyment and satisfaction can help relieve some of your stress prior to doing your thing with clients. Pick activities that you love and that relax you. Consider sitting down with a good book and allowing it to whisk you away for a little bit. Or, tune into your favorite show on Netflix and binge watch a couple of episodes. Maybe, your indulgence is good food. Have a good meal full of your favorite things. (But don’t overeat! That could totally backfire on you!) Listening to your favorite music can be both relaxing and energizing, which could get you ready in several ways for your performance. Regardless of what the activity is, pick something that fills your soul. Don’t select something to make others happy. Opt for a pastime that you’re good at, find stimulating and think is fun or rewarding. It can have significant meaning or it can be simplistic in nature. But, doing something you enjoy prior to a gig can send you to clients in a happy, optimistic mood.

7. Complete some relaxation techniques: If you’re really tense and uptight about performing for your customers, it may be necessary to do some formal relaxation techniques. If you have free time (and funds) before a gig or encounter, consider getting a professional massage at your favorite spa. They will work out any tense areas of your body and the atmosphere will do wonders for your frame of mind. If that’s not really an option, do some meditation. You’ll need a quiet, personal space for this, so if that’s not available, it may not be a great option. Tai Chi or yoga are great physical ways to physically relax your mind AND body. But, all of these take time or space to do. If you’re lacking either of those elements, you may want to just practice some deep breathing exercises. Focus specifically on breathing in and then breathing out. Concentrate on how the air feels as you inhale and the sensation it provides when you exhale. After a few deep breaths, you may feel calm and ready to take on the world.

8. Take extra time to get ready: If you feel hurried and rushed as you prepare for a date with a client or as you set up for a webcam performance, it leaves you stressed out and emotionally unprepared for what you’re going to be engaging in. Spending some extra time on yourself as you prepare for an appointment can make you feel pampered and beautiful. Pay close attention to your make-up and hair as you get dressed. Dress in something you feel extra confident in. Whether it’s a super sexy lingerie set or a dress that’s cut down to “there,” wear clothing that gives you that extra burst of self esteem and makes you feel sexy. Winning the mind war is half the battle, and when you feel like you look like a million bucks, it will help you relax and perform with ease. If you don’t have extra time, try to incorporate something special into your apparel or getting-ready routine. Wear a special bra, spritz on your favorite scent or slip into the sexiest shoes you have.

9. Laugh: Laughter really is the best medicine. And, it can relieve stress, worry and all kinds of other negative emotions that may be challenging your success as an adult entertainment services provider. If you can’t find anything funny in your own life to laugh at, observe the world around you. People-watching on your way to an encounter or gig may provide you with all of the innocent giggles you need that will lift your spirit and help you relax. If that doesn’t work, listen to a comedy routine in your car as you travel. All kinds of skits and monologues are available to stream through your phone or iPod. If you’d rather watch your funnies, tune into your favorite sitcom or comedic movie. Just a few minutes of laughs may be enough to break the boredom and push you out of any funk that may be preventing you from loosening up with your clients. If you don’t have time to do it prior to seeing your customers, lighten the mood with them. One good laugh may be all it takes to rid you of any nerves or apprehension as a provider.

10. Do something you excel at: Shooting a couple of hoops or playing a video game may make you feel like you’re really good at something. (Or, not!) Consider all of the things you’re good at and try to incorporate that activity into your day prior to a gig or performance. By engaging in a pastime that is easy for you or that you are successful at, you experience those feelings of accomplishment and satisfaction. When you experience feeling like you’re a winner, it’s a lot easier to rid yourself of negative self think, nervousness and apprehension about your customers. It puts you in a good mood, which always helps you deal with your profession. And, it builds your confidence, which is good for two things: 1) Confidence is insanely sexy, and 2) Confidence helps you overcome any thoughts that you aren’t capable of pleasing your clients.

11. Rehearse: If you’re a dancer or performer, it’s pretty easy to rehearse your act. Do it in front of a mirror, so you know how you look and can perfect any actions that don’t seem just right. The more you rehearse, the more confidence and comfort you will build. If you’re a provider who interacts more specifically with clients, rehearsing may be a little more of a challenge — but, it’s still possible! Pretend to have conversations with clients. Act out role plays in your head that you and your client may participate in. Go through the dialogue that may take place. In your mind, sequentially, go through how you predict an encounter may take place. Of course, what you imagine and what really happens may differ greatly, but going into situations feeling prepared can help alleviate any worries or nervousness you may have, leaving you loosened up and ready for anything.

12. Avoid drugs or alcohol: Some providers will tell you that a glass of wine, a beer or a quick shot of whiskey helps them lose their nervousness and provides them with “liquid courage” as they prepare to meet up with clients. Others may say they do a quick line of coke or take a long drag off of a doobie before seeing customers. You should never teach yourself to rely on alcohol or illicit substances in order to mentally or physically prepare to do your job. It’s a slippery slope that will cause increased drug and alcohol abuse. You’ll eventually convince yourself that you need a little “more” to gear up for performances…or to deal with any other life struggle. It’s a terrible habit to get into and can ruin your career, life and any hopes of your future. A drink here and there is one thing — but, relying on a alcohol or drugs to do your job is completely different and unacceptable.

13. Don’t worry: As an adult entertainment services provider, you know that no experience is going to go exactly as you plan it out in your head. Getting nervous ahead of time really doesn’t do any good and won’t change the outcome. Whatever is going to happen will – regardless of how much you’re worried about it ahead of time or any level of preparation you’ve done. If you’re good at what you do, are professional in nature and strive to do your best with each and every customer, that’s all you can do. Exhibit confidence and calmness to your clients. Carry yourself with class. And, treat everyone with respect. If you do these things, you really don’t have much to worry about. You can’t control fate — and, you can’t control every encounter, performance, gig or experience. Not worrying about it ahead of time will create the best chances for you to have a successful and pleasurable moment with your customers.

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Emotions that escorts deal with
June 17, 2015 |
Even though you may have had several issues that you had to address when you first opted to enter the escort industry, there are many more emotions you have to continue to face and overcome in order to be successful with your clients.

Having a thriving escorting career isn’t always easy, and you may experience a lot of feelings that could be detrimental to reaching your potential. Getting over these hold-ups is necessary if you’re going to pursue a serious career. Avoid falling into any of these emotional traps:

1. Feeling too much pity for lonely or unlucky clients won’t help your business. Fairly often, clients will attempt to prey on your emotions in order to get discounts, freebies or additional time/services. The more pathetic they appear, the more they hope you will feel sorry for them. It’s admirable for you to have compassion and sympathy for your clients who feel isolated or empty, but when it influences your decisions about how to enforce your rates or policies, it’s a negative attribute. Some clients are genuinely lonely. Others really do have terrible luck with love and life. But, it’s not your fault. Your job is to simply provide these clients with the most fulfilling encounter you can give them during the time they schedule with you. You aren’t obligate or expected to give them anything more. If they make you feel like you should offer them something else, they are trying to take advantage of YOU.

2. It’s really easy to have sincere dislike for your clients, but it won’t help make encounters any more pleasant. Often, clients are rude, inconsiderate or uncompassionate jerks. Others may be perfectly nice, other than being judgmental, self-centered or right-down pompous. It becomes pretty obvious why they are seeking your affection, because they may be unable to acquire it in their daily lives, as a result of their behavior and attitudes. And, even if you don’t actually like some of your clients, you need to find a way to engage with them during an encounter, if you accept their bookings. Acceptance of these behaviors as just part of who your client is may be the easiest option to moving on with a booking with one of these types. Or, you can mention the distasteful behavior or attitude, in hopes that your client will attempt to temper it in your presence. There’s nothing saying that you have to actually like each and every one of your clients. But, if you really dread spending time with one, you should probably just decline the appointment.

3. Loving or lusting after one of your clients is a recipe for disaster. It’s great if you like a client. It’s even better if you find yourself sexually attracted to a client for his wit, charm or hot body. But, it’s NOT a good thing if you daydream about your client and have romantic delusions that you and he will run away together. You and your clients have a professional, business relationship. You provide companionship and other services as agreed, and he pays for your time. It’s expected to be able to exchange niceties and get to know one another, especially when intimacy is involved. But, any fantasies you have about forming a long-term personal relationship with your client should be nipped in the bud. If you find yourself falling in love with a client, you have to pull back your emotions. If you get an urge to give your client a 2 a.m. booty call, ignore it. More than that — shove it to the back of your mind. Falling in love with or lusting after your client is overstepping the boundary of your relationship with him. It will damage the friendship you have with him and severely limit the abilities you have to be a successful escort, especially where he is concerned.

4. Feeling jealous of your clients’ wives or significant others will diminish your ability to perform well during encounters. If you’re busy imagining what it would be like to live in your client’s home or to go on luxury vacations with him, you probably aren’t fully engaged with making sure your client has a fulfilling encounter with you. It’s easy and understandable to envy the lifestyle of the partners of your clients. It may appear they have it all: amazing home, open bank account and a life of riches. And, if you think your client is a diamond in the rough, it may even seem like you’d prefer to have him for your own. However, becoming jealous of a significant other is not helping you accomplish your goals. And, keep in mind, that regardless of how wonderful he seems when he’s with you, they live with him daily and see each and every one of his faults. And, also, be reminded that you really shouldn’t be too jealous of a spouse: he’s cheating on that spouse with you. Being her won’t seem so wonderful when/if she finds out that he’s been seeing you. Jealousy will eat you alive. You can admire a spouse, but don’t become obsessed with envy.

5. Hating society for judging you will only make you bitter. Society is extremely hard on escorts and those who work in the adult entertainment industry. Automatic stereotyping is done when a person is identified as an escort. Assumptions are made about an escort’s background, her personal habits and her psychological state. It’s incredible what people think they know about your lifestyle. However, being angry and hating the general public for their ignorance or closed-mindedness will only cause you to have a negative attitude about life, in general. You should feel slighted by society, but letting it depress or anger you will affect your overall outlook on life. That’s not to say that you should just roll over and accept what society thinks or says about you or your chosen career. You still have to work against the grain to hold your head high and proudly carry yourself as a functioning, respectable member of society.

6. Being ashamed of being an escort will hinder building a successful career. When you’re not proud of what you do, it’s going to make it impossible for you to do it well. While there are certainly downfalls to being an escort, it is not a dishonest, unethical career choice that should cause you to question your character. You are performing a service that many clients are unable to find in their lives anywhere else… and helping them lead a more fulfilled life, as a result. Even though society may rough you up a bit about your morality, “they” can never judge for you what is right or wrong. While you may not want the entire world to know what you do for a living, you still shouldn’t feel shame for it, either. You are not stealing from anyone. You are not conning anyone into anything. And, you’re not hurting anyone. In fact, you’re making a lot of people VERY happy and getting paid to do it.

7. Being fearful constantly will impede your ability to become a thriving escort. Of course, it’s natural to be scared of any client who threatens to harm you. While most high-end escorts do not encounter violent or dangerous clients, it is always a possibility. There will always be potential for a client to go off his rocker during a booking. You must always be careful. But, living your life in fear of your clients will not enable you to be the confident, outgoing escort your clients expect you to be. Additionally, being afraid of your secret getting out to family and friends is another fear that plagues many escorts. You should know that they will inevitably find out… if not now, probably later. But, fearing it before it happens is not a way to live your life. Always falling prey to the what-ifs and the maybes will hinder you from taking positive risks and doing things that will perpetuate your career.

8. Shyness will cause you to struggle harder for a prosperous escorting career. If you have trouble talking to people, because you’re bashful, you’re going to have a difficult time keeping the “warm-up” period of an encounter running smoothly. Often, shy clients contact escorts to offset their own quietness or hesitation to speak. If you both are so shy you can’t talk to one another, it’s going to be a LONG encounter. Additionally, clients want you to be outgoing and be willing to make the first move. If you’re unable to follow through with this, clients may not get what they want from an encounter with you. And, finally, escorts are often known for being uninhibited. Your wild, free spirit, especially in the bedroom, is what attracts clients. If you are afraid to let go and show who you are, you can’t provide that carefree booking many look for.

9. Insecurity about what you have to offer will diminish your success. Escorts have to have an innate degree of self worth. And, you have to be able to recognize your strong abilities and features that make you appealing. Identifying things about yourself that others would find attractive is a necessity when it comes to marketing yourself to clients. Being humble about your positive traits will not draw clients to you. Even if it feels like bragging, you have to share about how wonderful you are in order to get attention. Secondly, when you go to a booking, you should exhibit confidence for two main reasons: 1.) Clients think confidence is sexy. There is nothing more exciting than a woman who is sure of herself. 2.) Confidence may ward off unsavory behavior from a client. A client is a lot less likely to attempt to hurt or take advantage of you if he thinks you are going to stand up for yourself. It’s a good way to avoid trouble before it starts.

10. Modesty is generally a flaw in the escort industry. Being embarrassed about showing off your body is not something that attracts clients. When they choose you to spend time with, they are definitely hoping that they will get a chance to see you naked or in your sexy lingerie. And, many of them will expect for you to show off your body to them, either by simply strutting around or doing an elaborate strip tease. Practice ahead of time by walking around your home either in the nude or in revealing lingerie. Look at yourself in the mirror. Get comfortable with your body, however perfect or imperfect it is. And, while modesty is usually appreciated in society, it won’t make you successful with clients. However, you can exhibit a degree of modesty and class by avoiding being completely trashy. Opt for sophisticated and elegant lingerie. Choose classically-styled attire that doesn’t expose your cleavage or booty for going to encounters. Dress in such a way that demonstrates you are proud of your body, but you don’t need to show it off to be sexy.

11. Exhibiting judgment about your clients won’t win you any good escort reviews. Everyone has a story. And, everybody is different. Until you’ve walked in your client’s shoes, you have no right to judge him and what he does. You don’t want your clients making assumptions about you and your actions, so don’t do it about them. Even if you think a client is a terrible human being for saying or doing something in particular, keep an open mind. And, as an escort, it’s never a good idea to stereotype your clients. When you receive a call from a young millionaire, you shouldn’t automatically assume he’s a trust fund kid. Just like you shouldn’t assume that a blue-collar client is going to use rough language and have no education about fine wines. You never know about people, so being presumptive about your clients will severely limit your abilities to see their most redeeming qualities. And, that, in turn, will reduce your worth in their eyes.

12. Frustration about your life will only make things worse. It’s easy to understand that your life may be frustrating. You’re trying to get ahead with an unorthodox career you’re keeping secret from your friends and family. You may be consorting with people you don’t actually like. And, you feel like a sex object, instead of a person, at times. It is totally understandable that you’re frustrated with your life. But, instead of being frustrated, do something about it. Change it in a way that is more positive for you. Discriminate about the clients you see. Share your secret with a trusted friend. Set a better schedule for yourself. Take an active role in your life and steer it in the direction you want it to go.

13. Greed will get the better of you. When you start to see the money roll in from successful encounters, it’s easy for an escort to get a bit greedy about making more dough. You may want to work more hours, charge a higher rate or experiment with risky encounters, just to bring in a higher income. And, while some of this may earn you a little more money for awhile, it may not work long-term. Risky encounters, for example, may create experiences where your personal safety or health is at stake. Increasing your rates may be okay with new clients, but you may lose old ones in the process. And, working more hours may cause you to experience burn out long before you would have otherwise. There’s a huge difference between smart ways of growing your business and allowing greed to guide you. Be able to keep those two aspects separate.

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The effects of confiding your escorting secret to others
April 9, 2015 |
It’s common for escorts to debate the pros and cons of divulging their secrets to friends and family members. But, most often, the pros and cons directly relate to how the sharing of the truth will affect you, the escort. Even though that may be a prevalent concern for you, obviously, there are many other factors to consider when you plan to confide in others. There’s a significant ripple effect that results in situations that you may not have even thought about and how they will impact not only you, but the important people in your life.

Firstly, it’s important to determine why you feel the need to tell others about your career. There are usually three main reasons that drive escorts to telling their secrets:

1.You feel guilty for not telling the truth. If you’ve lived a life that was traditionally straight-forward and honest, it’s probably eating you up inside to be keeping secrets from the very people you love the most. You buy into the theory that “the truth will set you free,” and want to lighten your conscience’s load by coming clean. You think that it will make you feel better to finally tell the truth about what you’re up to so that you don’t have to blacken your soul my lying continually. You want to finally be able to look someone in the eye, without having to divert your glance when you suspect that they realize you’re being dishonest. This is a huge motivator for sharing your secret with someone. It’s such a relief to finally be able to be truthful with your loved one.

2. Keeping up the lie is becoming too complicated. It’s hard to maintain a cover story long term and stick to the same lie repeatedly. Often, embellishments are required along the way, which makes your story even more elaborate and difficult to remember. It may become such an alternative to reality that you may have trouble adhering to it when you’re around your friends and family members, due to how it’s grown over time. Sometimes, your lies take on a life of their own and get completely out of hand, which makes it even more challenging to keep up with them. It’s just easier to stop pretending and tell the truth. When you are honest, you don’t have to worry about getting your facts straight or trying to remember which lie you told last.

3. You need someone to talk to. Many escorts find themselves in binds or quandaries where they need assistance or advice. Being isolated by a lie isn’t incredibly helpful when you need some helpful insight. Coming clean about what you do for a living is the first step to finding someone you can be honest with, as you vent or discuss the events of your day. Maybe you just need to be able to tell someone about the raunchy client you had or the crazy thing that happened mid-encounter. Not being able to talk about these things makes them even more difficult to process, so telling someone about your career seems like the most logical thing to do, freeing you up to converse with them openly.

While each of these reasons are viable motivations for sharing your secret with others, they are also very self-centered views that do not even presume that sharing a secret of such magnitude would have an impact on another person.

When an escort shares her secret with someone else, there are several ripple effects that may seriously impact both individuals’ lives, along with those they come into contact with, too. Take a moment and read about the potential effects your new honesty may have:

1. You are placing a burden of secrecy upon your friend. By confiding in them, you are making them a conspirator to your plight. In fact, you may be making them an unwilling party to your efforts. When you share your secret with someone else, that person may not be aware of the level of discretion you are requiring of them until it’s too late to take it all back. The responsibility of helping you keep your details private becomes their task, too, when they are privy to your most hidden truths. Without saying as much, you are requiring them to protect your secret, just as you would, once you’ve divulged confidential information to them. Upon learning your secret, this individual may feel overwhelmed with the duty they are now faced with to help you maintain your cover story.

2. You assume that your family member’s loyalty will be most linked to you. However, that may or may not be the case. Many times, when an escort confides her deepest, darkest secrets to someone, she learns that a deeper loyalty lies with someone else and her secrets become public. Other times, it puts immense pressure on a loved one to ignore other loyalties he may have. For instance, telling only one parent about your confidential career puts enormous stress on the chosen one to keep the truth from your other parent. This is especially difficult if they are still married and have extreme loyalty to tell each other everything. It’s unfair and unwise to expect that a friend or family member will automatically choose their loyalty to you over their close ties to another loved one.

3. Loved ones have moral obligations to share your news. Just because you tell someone about your secret doesn’t mean that he or she will accept your lifestyle. Giving that much trust to a friend may flatter them, but they may still feel obligated to tell your secret to others, in hopes that they can help you choose a more honorable career. Or, they may be afraid for your safety. Despite your insistence for discretion, the other person may feel torn between being honorable to you or fulfilling a moral obligation to others. For instance, if you tell your aunt what’s going on in your world, she may feel like she has to come clean with her sister (your mother). After all, they’ve been through thick and thin together and made promises to tell each other important things they discover about the family. Putting her in the position to go against that bond is selfish.

4. Your confidante can’t deal with the emotions of your confession by talking with those close to him. Telling your brother, for example, about your career and prohibiting him from sharing the details with anyone else is insensitive. He may be shocked and sad at the discovery. But, he is unable to talk with others to work out his feelings about your career. He can’t share what he knows in order to talk about his own emotions. Forcing him to internalize how he feels about the situation is unhealthy and a selfish thing to do. Loved ones who must avoid the subject with the people he cares about may withdraw, become angry or act disinterested, all while trying to process his own emotions.

5. It’s unfair to ask others to lie for you. Not only are you asking someone to not tell your secret, but many escorts expect their confidantes to tell untruths on their behalf to help them avoid their secret becoming public knowledge. Expecting another person to fib for you in order to create smoke and mirrors around your choice as an escort is immature. Keeping your secret is your own responsibility. It’s not someone else’s role to protect your confidential life. If you want to ensure that your escort lifestyle remains private, don’t tell anyone else about it. When you tell others, you can’t expect them to put their own reputations and relationships on the line for you. This self-centered view doesn’t realize the impacts that this person’s lies might have not only on you, but also on their friendships or in the trust that others have in them.

6. You put people in unfair positions where they are unable to defend you. If a situation ever arises where people are discussing truths or untruths about you, you have tied your friend’s hands in many ways in any efforts they might take to stick up for you. Before being silenced by your requests for discretion, they would be able to offer honest defenses for any accusations against you. They would be able to vocalize aspects of your moral character. But, now, with making them promise to not breathe a word of the truth to anyone, they are bound to sit idly by while others discuss you. This will probably bother your friend immensely, causing them to resent knowing the truth. It’s hard on relationships to expect your friends to tolerate discussion without being able to speak up.

7. You put the people you care for in awkward situations. By requesting that they keep your secret, your friend may have to pointedly avoid conversations that they predict will involve discussions about doubts others have about you. They may become engaged in conversations about the world of escorting and seem to have too much knowledge without any explanations of how they’ve gotten it. Their awkwardness in certain scenarios (due to keeping your secret) may cause others to think suspiciously of them. Rumors may start that they are involved in the escort industry in some way, due to their knowledge of the career. Or, they may have to withdraw from various circles due to topics of discussion or feeling uncomfortable with the general opinions of the group.

8. Your secret may damage your relative’s relationship with you. Due to the stress of keeping your secret, he may begin to resent you. He feels like he has to lie to others on your behalf, which makes him feel bad about himself. He blames you for that. Additionally, when others feel betrayed by his refusal to tell the truth about what he knows about you, they withdraw from him, causing damage to his relationships. When his other friendships and connections go down the tubes as a result of trying to protect the secret you’ve told him, he will feel like you’ve betrayed HIM by making his life impossible. The ripple effect becomes that a person you’ve once felt closest to is torn away from you due to that deep connection you once shared. By entrusting your friend with your secret, you’re effectively placing a time bomb in your relationship that may go off at any time.

9. Your trusted family member may feel cheated out of being angry or disgusted with you. Anger is a common emotion associated telling the truth about your escorting career. Another one is disgust. Family members and friends are often mad you’ve lied to them and horrified by the lifestyle they presume you lead. However, when you surprise a loved one with your secret and swear them to silence due to your trust, they may feel like they don’t even have a chance to feel negative about your career choice. Being so preoccupied with your own needs to tell someone else and obtain advice or insight, you fail to consider that the person you’ve chosen to share information with may not approve of your actions. But, as you go on with your efforts to push your secret on a friend, she may not even get a chance to express her dissatisfaction with the situation, feeling naturally obligated to support you.

10. Others will feel betrayed by your lack of trust in them. Once it’s discovered that you told a certain friend or family member, others in your circle may think that you don’t love or trust them as much. They may be hurt or confused about what they did to lose your trust. Some may feel betrayed, because you know all of their secrets. It may damage future aspects of relationships, when they fail to tell you things about their life. And, the bonds associated with your friendships may be tenser than normal, due to the realization that you lied to them, but told someone else the truth. Selecting certain members of your family and leaving others out when you need to divulge your secrets will definitely put a rift between you and your loved ones, in addition to putting them at odds with one another.

The realization that it’s not all about you when you decide you need to share your secret lifestyle is the first step to being able to come clean with a friend or family member. Recognizing the fact that your one confession can have multiple effects is significant. It’s not just as simple as divulging your escort experiences. It has huge impacts on the people you tell… and the ones you don’t. Before you tell someone just to get it off your chest, make sure that you think of the others in your life and how they will feel with the responsibility of being your secret keeper.

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Which mindset works best for successful escorts?
December 10, 2014 |
So, you want to be an escort? That’s all fine and well, but you must prepare yourself for what the career really entails. It’s not all wine and roses, with great tips thrown in for your outstanding service. It’s hard work, socially unacceptable and can cause you immeasurable heartache, along with providing you personal empowerment and financial freedom, all at the same time.

The escort industry is a unique one that requires a mindset prepared for the trials and tribulations it offers. It’s not just knowing what you’re possibly going to encounter; it’s being ready to accept these facts and changes to your current lifestyle. Consider these elements as you work to establish a helpful frame of mind as you enter into an escorting career:

1. Understand that society will look down on you. It’s not socially acceptable to be an escort. Conservatively-minded and extremely judgmental, society has been trained to think that anyone who works in the adult entertainment industry is tainted and innately immoral. As an escort, it’s automatically assumed that you’re dirty, drug addicted and mentally unstable. Your presence is enough to seduce any man, so you are a threat to all women. Any time that a client meets with you for an encounter, it isn’t his own doing. It’s your tempting ways that have detoured him off the straight and narrow path, according to society. She-devil, whore, slut, home wrecker and prostitute are common names for an escort. Most escorts attempt to hide their true professions, out of fear of discrimination for both themselves and their families. Even though the U.S. is supposed to be accepting and understanding of diversity, take a cue from experienced providers that the tolerance of diversity does not extend to the escort industry.

2. Expect your family to disown you. Because their minds have been influenced strongly by the aforementioned judgmental society, members of your family may be disgusted by your career choice, choosing to forsake you instead of claim you. If they aren’t immediately judgmental of your choice of professions, they may be so disillusioned as to think that you need saving from yourself and your “poor” choices. Deep, personal and emotional discussions will erupt when your family discover what you’re doing. This is why many escorts attempt to keep their professional efforts a secret from their loved ones. Many escorts experience estrangement from their families after their career is disclosed. If your family accepts your career choice without difficulties, consider yourself in the minority. However, with acceptance or disownment, the dynamics of your family will certainly change.

3. Prepare for the fact that you won’t be earning a steady paycheck. Just like all other self employed entrepreneurs out there, your income will ebb and flow as your business fluctuates. Many self-employed professionals (in all industries) claim that it’s either “feast or famine.” You either have more than enough to pay your bills, with more business than you can handle at a time or your work is so slow paying bills is nearly impossible. In order to make your escorting career work for you, you have to budget well and save for a rainy day. While your income may be inconsistent, your regular expenses aren’t. Avoid splurging when you have extra money, unless you have already saved up a slush fund for times that you aren’t earning your targeted income. Additionally, realize that personal crises may prevent you from working, which also means you won’t be getting any money. Illness, injury or personal issues may keep you from your clients, and you will need to resort to savings to fulfill your financial obligations. As long as you’re prepared that your economic situation may be a fluctuating one, you will be ready for an escorting career.

4. Know it’s the luck of the draw with clients. Some escorts complain consistently about the caliber of clients they get. Their clients may be smelly, cheap, rude and less than handsome. The type of encounter they prefer is rough and sex-centered. Perhaps, their clients even prefer creepy fetishes that they are a bit uncomfortable with. However, on the flip side, other escorts are happy to share details about their delightful clients who always show up smelling great and toting gifts. These clients have fabulous manners and a witty sense of humor, in addition to be nice on the eyes. It really is up for grabs what kind of clients you get. And, it’s likely that you will attract a variety of types, especially in the beginning. However, as you begin to establish yourself increasingly as a high-end escort, your client list will begin to even out and resemble a more consistent type of clientele. In fact, as you progress in your career, it’s possible that you will be turning down clients you used to would have loved to have for encounters. But, keep in mind, that you will generally attract the kind of clients you advertise for. If your marketing seems upscale and classy, those kinds of clients will call you up. When your promotional efforts seem a bit trashy or sleazy, the clients who are ruder and cruder will probably show up. But, don’t be surprised either way; the world is full of all kinds of people, much like your client list may be.

5. Realize that the profession is personally risky. Even though the odds are certainly in your favor for a nice, quiet encounter with a harmless client, you can’t ignore the possibility that your client could have less honorable intentions. Experienced escorts preach the necessity of conducting thorough screening of your clients to ensure they are who they claim to be and to get a head’s up on any criminal records or other violence they may be prone to. Because you are putting your safety into the hands of a complete stranger, it’s also imperative to implement some sort of safety protocol with a friend, family member or body guard. The protocol should include always knowing where you are going when headed to outcalls, a call verifying you made it safely and that things seem okay with the client and a call at the end of the encounter to let the other person know you are safe and sound as you leave. While not every client will pose a risk, some do. You should be prepared for the potential of an unsafe encounter.

6. Watch out for STDs. Requiring the use of condoms during encounters that involve sexual intimacy is something that should be a consistent part of your routine. It helps to decrease your risks of contracting a sexually transmitted disease or infection. However, condom use, alone, won’t keep you completely safe. Do your best to quickly examine clients before you become intimate with them. Sometimes, external symptoms are not limited only to a client’s penis. They may show up in various places on his genitals, anus and mouth. If you suspect that a client has an STD, talk to him about it and end intimate parts of the encounter then and there. Know that if you acquire an STD it will affect your ability to work, which will directly diminish your earnings. It can affect you for life, or it may cause you some extreme discomfort during the time it takes to heal.

7. Possess a general affinity for people. If you don’t consider yourself a people person, this may not be the right career choice for you. Escorts have to basically like people and being around others. Your communication skills have to be excellent, and it helps to be able to have a conversation about nearly anything with anyone. Escorts who prefer solitude, instead of a socially-based lifestyle, may struggle with the aspects of the career that require them to be outgoing, enthusiastic and personable. The career is people-based and requires personal engagement that some people have difficulties with. If being social is not something you’re altogether comfortable with, developing a persona who is will be essential. Otherwise, every encounter may be uncomfortable for you.

8. Guard your privacy fiercely. Clients like to ask a lot of questions, because they are curious about who their escorts are in real life. They will want to know your real name, whether you have a spouse/partner and other details about your personal life. You have to blow off their questions, change the subject or simply refuse to disclose intimate details about yourself in order to keep your personal life private. And, while most clients would never think to stalk you or utilize your personal details in a malicious way, you can never be sure that the information is safe to share. Avoid any issues by simply keeping your details to yourself. This also means that you shouldn’t carry proper identification, bank cards or mail with you that will reveal your true identity. Avoid linking anything related to your career to your real name, such as your website of cell phone number. Once you realize that this is just part of the job, it won’t seem so secretive.

9. Expect to wear many hats as an escort. Of course, it’s obvious that when you’re an escort, you are the product that the clients are expecting to sample through booking an encounter with you. But, by making this your profession, you will also play other roles. Marketing is essential to your success, so you will have to become a pro at promotion. Business management skills are required to keep your bills paid, expenses caught up and other details tended to. Accounting talents keep your expenses from consuming all of your income. Your communication skills are necessary to talk to clients and book encounters. You may have to work as a writer (for your profile), photographer (for your pictures) and fashion designer (for your wardrobe). Problem-solving skills are required to address logistics problems, and being your own fitness trainer may keep you looking fit. All in all, it’s not just meeting up with clients and looking sexy. You have to manage and keep up your business.

10. Come to terms with the fact that your career choice walks a fine line between legal and illegal. Prostitutes sell sex for money or other valuables. Escorts charge for their time. Under no circumstances do you ever charge for sex. If it accompanies an encounter, fine. If it doesn’t, that’s fine, too. However, while you may have a very clear vision of how your career as an escort is fully legal, others may not. Law enforcement agencies are always on the lookout for prostitution arrests, so you must be very careful about how you market yourself and what you promise clients. Limiting the discussions involving sex with clients is a must, in order to present a clear image that your services do not include sexual acts. Be very clear that your services are time-oriented and include your companionship, nothing else.

11. Enjoy sex and physical contact with others. Even though your job is not explicitly to have sexual activity with your clients, it is often an added bonus that you allow your clients to enjoy. To fully embrace your career, it helps if you like physical affection and intimacy. Some escorts absolutely love the physical pleasure associated with becoming intimate with clients. However, others don’t like being touched at all, which makes it even more challenging for them to provide fulfilling encounters to clients who hope that sex might be a consensual activity.

12. Grow a thick skin. Because clients are sometimes rude and hurtful with their comments, escorts have to have a tough exterior and high self-esteem to avoid allowing their clients to hurt their feelings. Regardless of the number of photos you post or the details in your profile description, some clients will feel that you’re not quite what they expected when you show up for an outcall. Instead of nicely stating such, they may react with negative comments that are aimed at insulting you. You have to be able to fluff off these insults without letting them get to you or influence your confidence.

13. Expect that your “friends” may become jealous of you. If you reveal your success to your friends, the ones with the quotes may become openly envious of you, hostile because of the fact that you had the guts to disregard social imperatives – and they did not; irritated by the opportunities that the career provides you. From shopping sprees to luxurious vacations, your friends may exhibit open admiration and cleverly hidden bitterness. Others might become mooches and expect you to pay for them, too, all of the time. Be prepared to tone things down a notch or become extremely generous. Otherwise, it may be smart to avoid letting anyone know the extent of your career success to keep friends in check.

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10 body parts clients like about escorts
February 14, 2013 |
Your clients may seek out your company as an escort due to your sparkling personality and dazzling wit, but they also enjoy the scenery you provide during encounters. Men are very visual creatures. They appreciate a woman’s looks and their attraction levels affect their abilities to think and make rational decisions. It’s a proven scientific fact that men are seriously affected by a woman’s beauty, and that is no different when they are visiting with an escort.

But, men have very different preferences. Some are “breast men”, while others are “leg guys”. Others yet appreciate woman’s posterior. As a result, an escort must be aware of the various parts of her body that clients appreciate. In addition to being aware of them, she needs to know how to take care of them in order to present them in the best possible way.

Here are the top 10 body parts clients like about an escort:

1. Eyes: Eyes are said to be the mirror to the soul. They express happiness, sadness and a wide range of other emotions. A client may be able to get lost in an escort’s eyes, especially if he’s a sucker for a girl who bats her eye lashes and uses her eyes to her advantage. But, an escort must take care of her eyes in order for a client to fully appreciate them. Firstly, so that a client can see them best, an escort needs to wear contacts instead of her glasses (unless glasses are specifically requested). Late nights and a busy schedule may cause eyes to look red and irritated. Escorts should have a ready supply of eye drops they can use to help get rid of the redness and bloodshot look. Women should use eye cream around their eyes before they go to bed to help reduce fine lines and wrinkles that cause eye crinkles. Cold compresses, slightly warm tea bags, cold spoons, cucumbers and potato slices may help to reduce puffiness and swelling around and directly below the eyes. Additionally, puffiness may be reduced by getting adequate sleep and reducing salt intake. Staying fully hydrated will also help eyes look their very best.

2. Skin: Velvety smooth skin is a huge turn on for a client. Because a man’s skin tends to be rougher just by nature, the contrast between his rough skin and your silky smooth skin is a huge thing for him. But, be sure to make your skin as attractive as possible by keeping it moisturized. Skin that is scaly and dry is not attractive. Moisturize and exfoliate regularly to ensure that your skin is hydrated and soft. Clients want you to be pretty much hair-free, so seek out waxing professionals for under arms, legs and the bikini area. If waxing isn’t the thing for you, consider getting laser hair removal treatments. And, it’s important to remember that healthy skin glows. But, in the winter, it’s sometimes difficult to make it glow when you’ve lost your summer tan. Visit the spray tanner regularly or apply self-tanner to get a healthy glow during the winter months. Tan skin is usually thought to be more attractive than pale skin. (Unless that’s your niche!)

3. Breasts: Soft, voluptuous breasts are an evolutionary attraction for men. Humans are the only animals to grow enlarged breasts (apart from association with pregnancy or nursing), and humans are the only animals that seem to be attracted by boobs. The success of the popular restaurant “Hooters” definitely proves that men’s obsession with cleavage is genuine. Breasts are fun to touch, they are soft and they provide comfort. But, escorts should showcase them properly in order to get the most good from them with their clients. Selecting the correct bra doesn’t sound like it would be so hard, but eight out of 10 women in America are currently wearing the wrong bra size. It’s important to be professionally fitted, make sure the straps fit properly (don’t slide off or dig in) and ensure the bra provides sufficient lift (especially for large busted ladies). Failure to wear a bra with sufficient support may result in saggy breasts later in life.

4. Buttocks: In the immortal words of Sir Mix-A-Lot, “I like big butts, and I cannot lie…” Many clients seek out escorts exclusively for their assets. They appreciate a woman with a little junk in her trunk with curves you can grab on to. Evolution is believed to lend its hand in man’s attraction to a woman’s butt, as animals historically sought sex from behind. So, a woman’s buttocks became a sexually-stimulating vision. Escorts can ensure that their buttocks remain an attractive quality by exercising muscles that will enhance a nice, round shape. Flat butts and flabby bottoms won’t cut it for being an escort. Build up your gluteus maximus by walking, swimming and doing other exercises that target the posterior muscles.

5. Hands: Every client enjoys the touch of an escort’s hands and the results they provide. They are used during a good hand job, but they are also great when they grab a man’s back during a particularly exciting climax. Men also appreciate the simple beauty that a woman’s hands posses. Women’s hands are often smaller and softer than a man’s. To keep them soft, regularly moisturize them by applying lotion every night you go to bed and throughout the day as you can. Get a paraffin wax or other spa treatments to treat any trouble areas or to pamper your skin. Make sure your nails are kept neat and maintained if polished. Getting regular manicures helps to keep your hands looking their best, in addition to providing an all-around put-together appearance. If you opt for artificial nails, make sure they aren’t too long and are filled regularly.

6. Hair: Because most men have shorter hair, they fully enjoy being able to run their fingers through a woman’s long, silky locks. Many clients look for an escort with long, full-bodied hair. Keep your hair looking its best by regularly conditioning it, applying deep therapy treatments and getting it cut regularly. Split ends can make your hair look awful, even if it’s healthy otherwise. If you color your hair, keep it maintained. Even if roots are “in” right now, most clients don’t want to see dark roots on you if you’re a showcasing yourself as blonde. Style your hair before each encounter, but make sure that it isn’t stiff or too fixed. Your clients like to be able to mess it up, even if they liked seeing it well styled when you first arrived. Keep your hair shiny with several home remedy options: a) mask of eggs and olive oil, b) coconut oil, c) avocado mask, d) lemon juice or e) apple cider vinegar.

7. Legs: Clients love it when an escort wraps her legs around them during a moment of passion. They also like to watch a woman walk around in a short skirt, admiring her shapely legs. Men aren’t often thought of as having sexy legs, but women are known to be able to attract men with their lean, long legs. Clients expect for your legs to be hairless, so a good wax job or laser treatments are necessary to give a smooth, follicle-free appearance. They like to run their hands down your legs, feeling how smooth they are. Moisturize and exfoliate your legs regularly, paying close attention to trouble spots such as knees. Knees can become extra dry during the summer and winter, so apply extra lotion to them to keep them soft and supple. Tone your legs so they are shapely. Do regular leg lifts, walk two miles daily or swim in order to keep your legs in shape. Most clients don’t want to see bulging thigh muscles, but they appreciate a bit of definition in your legs.

8. Feet: Prancing around in your stilettos will turn on many clients. They love the look of a high-heeled shoe on woman, regardless of whether it’s a pump or sandal. But, they also like to find out what’s on the inside of that shoe, too. Get regular pedicures to keep your feet in great health and condition. Work on reducing calluses by moisturizing and using a pumice stone to slowly wear them away. Foot baths and gentle cleansers can help to improve the suppleness of your feet, too. Keep your toe nails trimmed neatly. Long toe nails look tacky and unkempt. If you polish them, patch up any chips or redo them when they look a bit dull. While most men appreciate a woman’s foot, other clients may worship them. Foot worship is a common fetish that escorts can asked to engage in regularly. Keeping your feet up to par will help you provide this service.

9. Mouth: Clients are attracted to an escort with a sexy mouth. Full lips, white teeth and a great smile will get an escort far with her career. But, she must take care of herself in order to keep her clients happy. A woman’s mouth does more than just provide a good French kiss or exciting oral sex. She uses it to speak with and tease her client in many ways, both physically and mentally. To keep your puckerer looking top-notch, moisturize regularly around your mouth to reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles. Reduce the chances of lips becoming chapped by liberally applying lip balm and covering your lips when out and about in cold, windy weather. Avoid licking your lips throughout the day, because that can cause them to become chapped and dry looking. Apply lipstick to enhance your pucker. Dental health is also important to keep your mouth looking sexy. Get your teeth cleaned every six months and have any dental work done that is required.

10. Sweet spot: The vagina is one area that all clients will agree on that they love for obvious reasons. Keep your vaginal health by regularly bathing and cleaning it with gentle soap and water. Never douche, and expect a slight odor from your vagina. It’s completely normal to have a slight scent. However, if the odor seems irregular, a visit to your gynecologist may be in order to make sure that you don’t have an infection or other problem. Get regular check-ups to ensure continued good health. Additionally, keep pubic hair trimmed neatly in your vaginal area. Most clients like something between the completely shaved and totally natural look.

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5 ways to please a client who expects an escort to be a mind reader
August 16, 2012 |
Many clients are happy to tell you exactly what they want, down to the finest details. They have a full erotic fantasy or role playing scenario in their heads and can relay it seamlessly. Some people, on the other hand, aren’t that eloquent. Yet others may tell you “Surprise me!” Or, that regular client you’ve seen three times may say “You know what I like.” Hmmm… The client who expects you to be a mind reader and anticipate his wants and needs is possibly the most difficult client to have. But, if you apply these five tips to your routine, your client may leave happy and think you really ARE a mind reader.

1. Ask them. Ask about their likes or dislikes during foreplay or while they are in the shower. Give them examples and ask about former dates that they enjoyed. Ask about their fantasies.

2. Change things up. Since you don’t know what they want, try everything. Start out with a role playing scenario, transition into tying them up and then convert the session into regular missionary-style sex. Give them a little taste of everything. This way they’ll be sure to enjoy
at least something.

3. Go down on them. What person doesn’t enjoy oral sex? Giving your client’s most private parts the most attention will surely get their attention.

4. Sensual massage often does the trick. Give your client a good rub down in all the “right” places. Starting out with traditional massage techniques and areas, loosen up your client so he or she is totally relaxed and stress-free. Work on knotted or tight areas of the shoulders
and buttocks. Gradually, slowly and seductively, work your way to more intimate areas of the body. Clients sometimes sit up and take the lead at this point, but if he or she doesn’t, continue with the process.

5. Tease. There are a number of ways to tease a client. You can stimulate yourself in front of them and only allow your client to touch you after a few minutes. Or, you can touch and tease your client, bringing them close to orgasm without following through. You can seduce them
with a strip tease or a lap dance. The intent is to create greater sexual excitement before the big show.

During your date with a client, pay close attention to their reactions. Sometimes a client says “Surprise me” only to take over halfway through the show. Your client may begin to give you directions or ask for things during your session. Listen and try to provide anything your client wants (that you agree to) during the session.

Although your client said they wanted to be surprised, be willing to turn the reins back over to them as soon as they figure what it is, specifically, that they want.

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What are the steps to becoming a full-time escort?
November 27, 2013 |

It’s fairly common for women to test the waters of the escort industry before fully jumping in. But at what point is it appropriate to transition into a full-time escorting career and ditch the traditional full-time job that was steadily paying the bills? Most escorts who want to move from part-time professionals to full-time “ladies of the night” are unsure when to actually make that conversion. Experiencing ups and downs with the industry as a part-timer may have them unsure about making the switch, in addition to being uncertain as to how to best prepare for it.

Much like changing careers from any profession, it’s a big adjustment and will require some forethought in order to make the switch seamlessly and painlessly. Consider these tips when you are thinking of making escorting your full-time gig:

1. Build up a client base through part-time work. Women who suddenly decide they want to be escorts can’t just quit their regular jobs and depend on an income to be automatically generated for them at the start. But, if they enter the industry knowing that they may only work part-time to start, they can begin creating a list of clients who may become regulars down the road. If you are currently working as an escort part-time, you know that it takes time to gradually build up a good base from which to draw fairly regular business. It’s not uncommon for an escort to have three or four times the amount of regular clients she sees in names on her client list…those she may only see occasionally or rarely. Just like in sales, it may take a considerable prospect list in order to confirm regular clients. Escorts need regulars in order to ensure they will be earning enough income to support their expenses. Working part-time gives you the opportunity to gain these clients and create a fuller schedule for yourself as you can handle it.

2. Establish a plan that designates how and when you will transition your careers. Escorts who fail to succeed in the industry often fail to plan. It’s necessary to establish a reasonable method that you will use to switch careers. Sometimes, it requires a complete break from your current full-time career. Other times, women are able to reduce hours and responsibilities at their full-time jobs, as a way to make it the part-time gig, and increase effort on the escorting career. Regardless of how you intend to make the transition, it’s important to set a phase-in date that will provide you with a deadline for getting everything in place. Maybe you need to resign from your current position, allowing two weeks for notice. Or, maybe you intend to take a couple of weeks of vacation from your full-time job in order to prepare for your escorting career. Think of everything you need to take care of in order to change your careers, just like you would when making any job switch. And, ensure that your plan is reasonable. Don’t set dates or create expectations that are simply unmanageable.

3. Analyze your current part-time earnings. Having a good handle on your current escorting income is essential to being able to predict what your potential is. If you’re about as busy as you want to be as a part-timer and your income from your efforts is somewhat substantial for the time spent dedicated to it, it’s a fairly decent indicator that your success is certain. However, if you fail to receive the rates you request when you do accept bookings, you might need to polish up your business skills before plunging in head first. In addition to considering your current part-time income, it’s also important to factor in the amount of money you could earn if you didn’t turn down encounters (due to time constraints associated with the career only being part-time). When combining these two amounts, it may help you predict better trends about how much earning potential you have as a full-time escort, especially if you were to put more effort into it.

4. Know your budget’s requirements. Everyone knows the basic expenses that they have to pay for in order to live. However, when you get realistic about your money, your budget includes a lot of extras that aren’t first considerations when you start listing off your bills. Consider everything from your cable bill to water bill and groceries, gas, payments and fun money. Additionally, it’s essential that you realize that some of your expenses may increase. For instance, your cell phone bill may cost more, especially if you sign up for a new contract for your escorting career. (Or, you may just need to increase your plan to include more minutes, data, messages, etc.) Building and maintaining a website may cost you something, and your utilities might increase as you will be at home more, working to communicate with and book clients into encounters. Having a pretty defined budget will help you avoid surprises that can put significant dents in your budget and cause you problems if you haven’t planned for them.

5. Practice saving for a rainy day. When you’re an escort, you have to expect there to be periods that work is scarce. Clients don’t call, regulars cancel encounters and you can’t even seem to attract attention by creating a new profile. Often, it’s influenced by the time of year (holidays and times when money is a little tight) or weather (extremely hot or blizzard conditions). Other times, it’s unexplainable why clients aren’t seeking you out. And, just as quickly as business slows to a halt, it will speed back up again, without notice. But, to able to endure such unpredictable income periods, escorts have to rely on savings they’ve accumulated in busier times. Before plunging into a full-time escorting career, it’s good to practice the saving concept for two reasons: 1) you find out if you can save money and keep it separate from spendable funds, and 2) you build up a safety savings net, of sorts, for a slow starting period or the first dry spell. Having this money saved up and knowing that you are capable of saving it will indicate that you may be ready for a full-time career. However, if you have difficulties keeping a few dollars stashed back, escorting may get really hard for you when you run into a lean month.

6. Exercise discretion about your plans at your full-time job. Even though you may be excited about your upcoming adventure, it’s not wise to share your plans with your boss or coworkers. Even if they seem “cool,” you should keep your secret to yourself. As you part ways with your full-time career, make up a new venture that you’re pursuing to avoid unnecessary questions about why you’re quitting. It’s entirely up to you what your cover story is, but it should be believable. (Not that you’ve been recruited to be a spy or won the lottery…you need any easily accepted story.) Some women use going back to school or starting a home-based business as convincing explanations about their departures. Also, avoid telling blatant lies that can be discovered with simple research. If you tell your employer that you are going to work at some other company, he can call and find out that you are not telling the truth.

7. Retain a good reputation as you leave your full-time profession. You never know what is going to happen in life or your career. Even though you might be wildly successful as an escort (or not), you may miss your old career and want to return to it. Don’t burn your bridges with your previous employer by slacking on the job the last few days, erupting in inappropriate rants or insults, failing to follow through on responsibilities or leaving in any other unprofessional manner. It’s best to leave the door open for positive relations between you and your previous employer and coworkers. You never know when you might need a reference or a connection for something. Do your best to leave on good terms with everyone. It is sometimes quite tempting to give your employer a piece of your mind if your experience at the job was a bad one, but you might have to pay for it later. Be professional in all aspects of your career, including your new one.

8. Expect that the transition may be more challenging than you anticipate. In the beginning, especially, your escorting career may demand more hours from you than your previous job did. Don’t worry about it too much; you will settle into a rhythm with it soon. If you don’t, you need to examine your efforts and attempt to streamline them for efficiency. Set schedules and stick to them, and realize that it takes a lot of effort to be an escort. Realize that you may get some really bad clients. They may be worse than any others you accepted when you worked part-time. (You could be more selective then; as a full-timer, you probably take more clients than you did before, allowing some in that wouldn’t have made the cut previously.) Additionally, you will be tired, especially until you adjust. Your schedule and work load may have you worn out. Many escorts find it incredibly challenging to manage all aspects of their business: marketing, communications, photos, website, accounting, scheduling, the actual work and making sure all of the other details are taken care of. It can be quite overwhelming in the beginning. But, once you get in the midst of it, you will begin to sort it all out.

9. Treating your escort as a full-time career is a must. Many escorts only work part-time hours, but they expect a full-time income. In order to achieve this full-time income, you have to prioritize your escorting career above other interests. Expecting to reap the benefits of the career by only putting in minimal effort is not realistic. As your own boss, you have to establish goals and force yourself to do everything possible to meet them. You have to make yourself work, even when it would be more fun to play. Being firm about your schedule and making yourself pay attention to your career daily, just as a full-time job, will help ensure success. However, if you only play at being an escort, you can’t expect your career to be steady and fulfilling.
Consider taking a part-time job to fill in any income gaps. As you transition your careers, an income deficit may be a problem, especially in the beginning. There are apt to be holes in your budget that are not covered by your start-up escorting career. However, filling in those shortfalls with income from a part-time job can get you over the hump when you need it. Waitressing, cashiering, menial office work or other jobs may help you feel more financially secure. Don’t take part-time jobs that require lots or responsibility, long hours or dedication. Jobs that are stressful should be avoided, too. (Escorting causes enough stress.) You’re not admitting failure by taking on a temporary gig; you’re just ensuring that you can maintain your current lifestyle until your escorting career takes off.

10. Don’t get desperate. Escorts who feel their success is eluding them may become desperate to attract clients and book encounters. Often, they reduce their rates, take clients they shouldn’t and allow their boundaries to be surpassed. Don’t succumb to these kinds of pressures. Stick to your guns about your rules and guidelines, refusing clients who won’t respect them. Do not reduce your rates (unless they ARE too high for your region) or allow a client to dicker you down for a discount. You are giving your time to a client; by reducing your rates, you are indicating that you will allow him to decrease your value, and that’s not acceptable. It’s understandable to become worried when the rent is due and money is unavailable. But, do not reduce your own self worth, risk your safety or deny your personal standards just for rent money.

11. Analyze your success along the way. Once you’re immersed into your escorting career, it may be difficult to recognize your small victories as your achievements grow. For instance, when you’ve doubled your income for the first time or hit a new personal best on monthly earnings, it might be time to celebrate. If you’re so caught up in the day-to-day of your career, it’s a breath of fresh air to look at the big picture and recognize your career growth. Conversely, if you’ve been working at your career for awhile (at least a year) and success of any sort is not reachable, it might be time to consider a career change. Also, if as you observe your career you realize you’re unhappy with what you’re doing, change it! Don’t continue to do things that make you unhappy or displeased with yourself. The point of having an escorting career is to enable you to go after the things in life you really want. If you’re enjoying your work, it’s time to move on to something else.

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How to get your good looks to work for you?
January 13, 2014 | Beginners’ guide, For escorts
Of course, all escorts know that looking good helps. There are obvious impacts of being beautiful when you’re an escort (see below), but there are also some that many escorts don’t realize, let alone make use of.

To be able to fully receive benefit from these advantages, you must know how your beauty can help you in the escort industry (and, life in general). Consider the following ways and adapt your career accordingly:

1. Beautiful escorts attract more clients. This is an obvious conclusion that all escorts can come up with, but it goes beyond the simplistic surface. The escort and sales industries are very similar. In each of them, you have a product that you’re attempting to get others to pay for. For all attempts, you are going to get turned down more than you get accepted for your product. But, the more chances you get for attention from a client, the better your odds are at making a sale. Escorts who appear to be good looking in their photos naturally attract the attention of more clients. And, as they get more attention, these clients are more apt to click on their profiles. The more views their profiles acquire, the more chances exist that the potential client will make contact. And, while every client who makes contact doesn’t book an encounter, any escort who fields more communication attempts will result in more bookings in the long run. No escort is going to book everyone who looks at her picture. But, an escort who gets lots of views will book more encounters, naturally, than one who gets only a few views regularly.

2. Good looking escorts can arrange for better deals for themselves by meeting vendors and business owners in person. It’s true that good looking people get perks and are offered special deals. Flashing a bright smile and fluttering the eyelashes a little will gain you opportunities you may not have ever known existed. Sometimes, cell phone customer representative associates will offer an attractive customer a special deal that includes discounts, free accessories or rebated bills. An escort might gain free hosting for a year if she meets directly with her Internet company. A landlord might cut the rent once he sees what a beauty he’s going to have in his building. You never know what perks you might get by meeting in person and using your appearance as another form of persuasion for the best deal possible. Additionally, good looking, charismatic people are able to negotiate for better prices in lots of retail situations.

3. Shopping is easier for good looking people. It’s common for escorts to shop in high-end boutiques or lingerie stores where clerks get to know their clientele. Unless they have great personalities, plain-looking customers usually sacrifice personal attention and assistance to better looking shoppers. Escorts who show up looking fabulous may gain positive attention from store owners and obtain first chances at new arrivals, discounts and other perks afforded only to preferred customers. Free gifts, appointment shopping and personal style assistance are more available to beautiful clientele. Boutique owners like to cater to their good looking customers, because they want their wares worn in such a way that complements their message. Outfitting good looking people helps them demonstrate to the world that they are successful…along with helping you out, when you’re one of their beautiful clients.

4. Beautiful escorts get unexpected help from various sources. An admiring bellhop, taxi driver or parking garage attendant may make your life easier in many ways. Hotel staff who befriend you, after being enchanted by your beauty, may make client referrals to you, help you gain access to restricted areas without suspicion and will assist you in your efforts to be discreet. Taxi drivers may give you free/discounted rides, along with picking you up at requested times, even when they are off duty. Parking lot attendants may not charge you and may reserve ideal spots for you, if you are a regular visitor. As you go about your regular activities, you may notice others who are happy to assist you in many ways, in part due to your beauty. Normally, men are always happy to help out an attractive woman.

5. Attractive escorts fit in better in all situations. When you enter an unfamiliar hotel, condo building or office complex, it’s easy to look out of place. However, when you’re good looking, people are less likely to notice that you don’t fit in. If they do notice, they are usually willing to help you find where you are going, without question about your motives. You do not get the questions or suspicions as easily as plainer looking peers. People are happy to accept your presence, simply because your image was a pleasant sight. Sometimes, people are too intimidated by your good looks to ask questions, too.

6. Your good looks gives you confidence. Every escort needs to have confidence in her appearance and skills. When you are attractive, that’s one less thing you have to worry about, which helps you build self esteem. Clients who select escorts continually insist that confidence and self-assurance are two traits that make women sexy and attractive. So, if you’re good looking (which makes you confident), you’re pretty much guaranteed success with clients.

7. Escorts without natural beauty should do the best they can with what they have. Even if you aren’t considered pretty or attractive on your own, there are lots of things you can do to enhance your looks. Make-up, the right hair cut and flattering, stylish clothing can create a polished image that suggests beauty. If you carry yourself with confidence and ease, others may be fooled into thinking you’re prettier than you actually are and award you the same benefits and perks that they offer others. And, every escort should consider herself beautiful. Each and every woman is beautiful in her own way, even if she hasn’t developed her full potential, yet.

8. Beautiful escorts can charge more. Clients are willing to pay premium fees for spending time with women they feel are “9s” or “10s” on the chart. If you convince clients that you are a sophisticated, classy and world-class beauty, they will pay your price and then some for your attention. Of course, you have to charge appropriately for your region, but make sure you are taking advantage of the rates your clients are willing to pay, instead of allowing them to enjoy too cheaply. Experiment by increasing your rates with new clients and gauge their reactions to determine if you can command higher fees full time.

9. Pretty escorts take less time to get ready for encounters. Women who have to perform high maintenance to appear beautiful spend much more time in front of the mirror and getting ready than others who are naturally beautiful. As a result, you may be able to book more encounters into a time period, because you have more time. If you don’t choose to schedule in more sessions with clients, this also leaves you with more time to spend with family members and friends or to engage in activities that are important to you. Extra time is a valuable commodity to an escort and a sign of success.

10. The “halo effect” applies to good looking escorts. Studies have demonstrated that people naturally assume good things of attractive individuals. Intelligence, compassion, kindness, generosity and common sense are traits associated with beauty, according to first impressions. Because the image that a beautiful individual presents is a good one, it’s natural for the perception about them to be overall good, too, including associating with them positive traits. This can be especially helpful with clients, because they automatically think you are wonderful.

11. Beautiful escorts tend to healthier. Scientists and doctors have long said that people with shiny hair, bright skin, good mental demeanours and excellent physical fitness are pictures of health. Your outward appearance is a direct representation of your inner health. It’s a manifestation of your diet, exercise and general well being. People who have attractive smiles, obviously have good dental hygiene. Those who are in good shape eat right and exercise. Signs of illness show themselves through indicators that can be seen physically, which usually are not traits associated with beautiful people. Additionally, pretty women tend to make more effort to take care of themselves through maintaining their weight and doing other things to keep themselves looking good. Those efforts help maintain physical health throughout your life, ensuring that you have the energy and stamina to keep up with your demanding career.

All in all, it’s common sense to indicate that beautiful escorts will be more successful. But, many other aspects contribute to long-term success in the industry. Good time management skills, financial responsibility, communication aptitude and personality all add in to being a successful escort for life. Beauty will help your chances of it, but you have to follow through with the rest. Squandering your beauty and not following through with the other essentials is a true waste of potential. So, take advantage of your benefits from being beautiful and continue to work on the rest. Most escorts will agree that success is a constant work in progress.

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What are the steps to becoming a full-time escort?
November 27, 2013 |
It’s fairly common for women to test the waters of the escort industry before fully jumping in. But at what point is it appropriate to transition into a full-time escorting career and ditch the traditional full-time job that was steadily paying the bills? Most escorts who want to move from part-time professionals to full-time “ladies of the night” are unsure when to actually make that conversion. Experiencing ups and downs with the industry as a part-timer may have them unsure about making the switch, in addition to being uncertain as to how to best prepare for it.

Much like changing careers from any profession, it’s a big adjustment and will require some forethought in order to make the switch seamlessly and painlessly. Consider these tips when you are thinking of making escorting your full-time gig:

1. Build up a client base through part-time work. Women who suddenly decide they want to be escorts can’t just quit their regular jobs and depend on an income to be automatically generated for them at the start. But, if they enter the industry knowing that they may only work part-time to start, they can begin creating a list of clients who may become regulars down the road. If you are currently working as an escort part-time, you know that it takes time to gradually build up a good base from which to draw fairly regular business. It’s not uncommon for an escort to have three or four times the amount of regular clients she sees in names on her client list…those she may only see occasionally or rarely. Just like in sales, it may take a considerable prospect list in order to confirm regular clients. Escorts need regulars in order to ensure they will be earning enough income to support their expenses. Working part-time gives you the opportunity to gain these clients and create a fuller schedule for yourself as you can handle it.

2. Establish a plan that designates how and when you will transition your careers. Escorts who fail to succeed in the industry often fail to plan. It’s necessary to establish a reasonable method that you will use to switch careers. Sometimes, it requires a complete break from your current full-time career. Other times, women are able to reduce hours and responsibilities at their full-time jobs, as a way to make it the part-time gig, and increase effort on the escorting career. Regardless of how you intend to make the transition, it’s important to set a phase-in date that will provide you with a deadline for getting everything in place. Maybe you need to resign from your current position, allowing two weeks for notice. Or, maybe you intend to take a couple of weeks of vacation from your full-time job in order to prepare for your escorting career. Think of everything you need to take care of in order to change your careers, just like you would when making any job switch. And, ensure that your plan is reasonable. Don’t set dates or create expectations that are simply unmanageable.

3. Analyze your current part-time earnings. Having a good handle on your current escorting income is essential to being able to predict what your potential is. If you’re about as busy as you want to be as a part-timer and your income from your efforts is somewhat substantial for the time spent dedicated to it, it’s a fairly decent indicator that your success is certain. However, if you fail to receive the rates you request when you do accept bookings, you might need to polish up your business skills before plunging in head first. In addition to considering your current part-time income, it’s also important to factor in the amount of money you could earn if you didn’t turn down encounters (due to time constraints associated with the career only being part-time). When combining these two amounts, it may help you predict better trends about how much earning potential you have as a full-time escort, especially if you were to put more effort into it.

4. Know your budget’s requirements. Everyone knows the basic expenses that they have to pay for in order to live. However, when you get realistic about your money, your budget includes a lot of extras that aren’t first considerations when you start listing off your bills. Consider everything from your cable bill to water bill and groceries, gas, payments and fun money. Additionally, it’s essential that you realize that some of your expenses may increase. For instance, your cell phone bill may cost more, especially if you sign up for a new contract for your escorting career. (Or, you may just need to increase your plan to include more minutes, data, messages, etc.) Building and maintaining a website may cost you something, and your utilities might increase as you will be at home more, working to communicate with and book clients into encounters. Having a pretty defined budget will help you avoid surprises that can put significant dents in your budget and cause you problems if you haven’t planned for them.

5. Practice saving for a rainy day. When you’re an escort, you have to expect there to be periods that work is scarce. Clients don’t call, regulars cancel encounters and you can’t even seem to attract attention by creating a new profile. Often, it’s influenced by the time of year (holidays and times when money is a little tight) or weather (extremely hot or blizzard conditions). Other times, it’s unexplainable why clients aren’t seeking you out. And, just as quickly as business slows to a halt, it will speed back up again, without notice. But, to able to endure such unpredictable income periods, escorts have to rely on savings they’ve accumulated in busier times. Before plunging into a full-time escorting career, it’s good to practice the saving concept for two reasons: 1) you find out if you can save money and keep it separate from spendable funds, and 2) you build up a safety savings net, of sorts, for a slow starting period or the first dry spell. Having this money saved up and knowing that you are capable of saving it will indicate that you may be ready for a full-time career. However, if you have difficulties keeping a few dollars stashed back, escorting may get really hard for you when you run into a lean month.

6. Exercise discretion about your plans at your full-time job. Even though you may be excited about your upcoming adventure, it’s not wise to share your plans with your boss or coworkers. Even if they seem “cool,” you should keep your secret to yourself. As you part ways with your full-time career, make up a new venture that you’re pursuing to avoid unnecessary questions about why you’re quitting. It’s entirely up to you what your cover story is, but it should be believable. (Not that you’ve been recruited to be a spy or won the lottery…you need any easily accepted story.) Some women use going back to school or starting a home-based business as convincing explanations about their departures. Also, avoid telling blatant lies that can be discovered with simple research. If you tell your employer that you are going to work at some other company, he can call and find out that you are not telling the truth.

7. Retain a good reputation as you leave your full-time profession. You never know what is going to happen in life or your career. Even though you might be wildly successful as an escort (or not), you may miss your old career and want to return to it. Don’t burn your bridges with your previous employer by slacking on the job the last few days, erupting in inappropriate rants or insults, failing to follow through on responsibilities or leaving in any other unprofessional manner. It’s best to leave the door open for positive relations between you and your previous employer and coworkers. You never know when you might need a reference or a connection for something. Do your best to leave on good terms with everyone. It is sometimes quite tempting to give your employer a piece of your mind if your experience at the job was a bad one, but you might have to pay for it later. Be professional in all aspects of your career, including your new one.

8. Expect that the transition may be more challenging than you anticipate. In the beginning, especially, your escorting career may demand more hours from you than your previous job did. Don’t worry about it too much; you will settle into a rhythm with it soon. If you don’t, you need to examine your efforts and attempt to streamline them for efficiency. Set schedules and stick to them, and realize that it takes a lot of effort to be an escort. Realize that you may get some really bad clients. They may be worse than any others you accepted when you worked part-time. (You could be more selective then; as a full-timer, you probably take more clients than you did before, allowing some in that wouldn’t have made the cut previously.) Additionally, you will be tired, especially until you adjust. Your schedule and work load may have you worn out. Many escorts find it incredibly challenging to manage all aspects of their business: marketing, communications, photos, website, accounting, scheduling, the actual work and making sure all of the other details are taken care of. It can be quite overwhelming in the beginning. But, once you get in the midst of it, you will begin to sort it all out.

9. Treating your escort as a full-time career is a must. Many escorts only work part-time hours, but they expect a full-time income. In order to achieve this full-time income, you have to prioritize your escorting career above other interests. Expecting to reap the benefits of the career by only putting in minimal effort is not realistic. As your own boss, you have to establish goals and force yourself to do everything possible to meet them. You have to make yourself work, even when it would be more fun to play. Being firm about your schedule and making yourself pay attention to your career daily, just as a full-time job, will help ensure success. However, if you only play at being an escort, you can’t expect your career to be steady and fulfilling.

10. Consider taking a part-time job to fill in any income gaps. As you transition your careers, an income deficit may be a problem, especially in the beginning. There are apt to be holes in your budget that are not covered by your start-up escorting career. However, filling in those shortfalls with income from a part-time job can get you over the hump when you need it. Waitressing, cashiering, menial office work or other jobs may help you feel more financially secure. Don’t take part-time jobs that require lots or responsibility, long hours or dedication. Jobs that are stressful should be avoided, too. (Escorting causes enough stress.) You’re not admitting failure by taking on a temporary gig; you’re just ensuring that you can maintain your current lifestyle until your escorting career takes off.

11. Don’t get desperate. Escorts who feel their success is eluding them may become desperate to attract clients and book encounters. Often, they reduce their rates, take clients they shouldn’t and allow their boundaries to be surpassed. Don’t succumb to these kinds of pressures. Stick to your guns about your rules and guidelines, refusing clients who won’t respect them. Do not reduce your rates (unless they ARE too high for your region) or allow a client to dicker you down for a discount. You are giving your time to a client; by reducing your rates, you are indicating that you will allow him to decrease your value, and that’s not acceptable. It’s understandable to become worried when the rent is due and money is unavailable. But, do not reduce your own self worth, risk your safety or deny your personal standards just for rent money.

12. Analyze your success along the way. Once you’re immersed into your escorting career, it may be difficult to recognize your small victories as your achievements grow. For instance, when you’ve doubled your income for the first time or hit a new personal best on monthly earnings, it might be time to celebrate. If you’re so caught up in the day-to-day of your career, it’s a breath of fresh air to look at the big picture and recognize your career growth. Conversely, if you’ve been working at your career for awhile (at least a year) and success of any sort is not reachable, it might be time to consider a career change. Also, if as you observe your career you realize you’re unhappy with what you’re doing, change it! Don’t continue to do things that make you unhappy or displeased with yourself. The point of having an escorting career is to enable you to go after the things in life you really want. If you’re enjoying your work, it’s time to move on to something else.

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